Am I In The Friend Zone
Am I In The Friend Zone
For men being placed in the friend zone is one of our biggest fears. Those dreadful words, “Lets Just Be Friends” can make a man go insane. Especially if you know you’ve invested a lot of time and effort into her. If you feel like you might be falling victim to this here are some signs to help you steer clear of that.
She Only Contacts You When She Needs Something
Yes, this is by far is one of the most noticeable signs to spot. The idea of her communicating with you seems like a good sign right? WRONG! It all depends on what and how she is communicating with you. Every woman has an agenda and so should you. If you receive text messages asking for favors or receiving calls with her saying, “ I don’t know how I’ll get to an interview.” chances are she’s slowing placing you in a box in which will benefit her in the end.
She Doesn’t Touch You EVER
Some may say this point is invalid due to the fact that touching might not be her love language. That might be true but it comes a time when that barrier must be broken. Body language is a key indication that she is interested in you or not. Women have subtle ways of finding a way to touch you without coming across as slutty. It can be from the hat you’re wearing to the watch or bracelets you’re sporting. At some point she will work her way into touching you. Take note the next time you go on a date with her.
Her Phone Is A Priority While You Two Are Together
If you see that while you two are out on a date she is constantly checking her phone, glued to social media, or carrying on phone conversations while you are in her presence. You might want to walk away from the situation to begin with. If a woman is truly interested in you she will put down her phone and just live in the moment. She would have already cleared her schedule to spend time with you. Not you just being a part of her schedule.
When She Wants Advice From You About Men
This one can throw a lot of men off due to the fact that you might feel that if she is curious about how to obtain a good man that you see this as an opportunity to describe yourself “subtly” to her. NEVER DO THAT! She will only go out and find a man that is basically you but not you at all. You’re somewhat playing the role of “Santa’s Little Helper” and you don’t want to do that. If she is coming to you about men just step aside and say you have nothing to say. It actually can up your chances even if she might think you are being an ass or rude to her. This is perfect because you are drawing the line between you and that friend zone she is trying to put you in.
If She Still Talks About Her Ex
Now if you have gotten to this point then quite frankly YOU WILL NEVER be able to return from the friend zone. Reason being is that she has already establish your role on her “roster” and you aren’t the star on the team. You’re barely even the 6th man. At this point you are on Injured Reserve with no contract extension coming your way. Any woman that openly discusses her previous issues with her ex or can’t own up to what went wrong with their relationship with their ex is definitely not over the situation. If all she does is take jabs at her ex any chance she gets and doesn’t utter any words of how she has grown from the situation and realizes what she could of done differently will never I repeat NEVER want to be with you.
Now you might think well in time she will move on and I’ll be the guy she needs if I just remain patient right? Yes and No my friend. Yes she will move on but NO it will not be with you.
Time heals everything but don’t let the time she needs healing be the time you waste waiting on her to come around. Go out and have fun and be yourself man. If anything she will see all the fun you’re having and the life you’re living and slowly work her way over to you. Then it’s up to you to decide if you should friend zone her or make her yours. I’m sure you’ll know what to do at that point :)
